LEARNING SELF CONFIDENCE, THE JOSE MOURINHO WAY
The day I have a portion of the Special one’s self confidence, self worth and believe, I will be a happy man…………though am trying small small,in this article CERUTTI MEDIA give you 5 tip to act like Jose Mourinho,Courtesy MUDI AFRICA AFRICA,WIKI MEDIA /LENOVO SLEEK PHONES
Here the confident one as he steps out today, when many could have faltered, he is not
Asked if he is nervous about the task ahead tonight, the Portuguese master professor insisted: “ For what? I Would be nervous if we had won 1-0 or 2-0 in Paris,but after losing 3-1 in Paris, I ‘am not nervous at all. I want to enjoy the game. So, no, no nerves.“We have to enjoy the 90 minutes. Maybe the 120 minutes. If we lose, we don’t enjoy it. But the 90 minutes, you enjoy.”
Lampard, who scored his 250th club goal on Saturday, warned: “We have to be positive but at the same time keep our heads. With the squad we’ve got we can win by two goals for sure. But we can’t be too gung-ho. It’s about finding the balance.
“We’ve got to get away from that feeling of trying to chase a goal from minute one. It’s more about being focused and getting our attitude and pace right.”
Yes, it could be a special night – no! Special it will be, for sure,” said Mourinho. “It’s a big game, an almost impossible job, so let’s go.
“Last year I lost 4-1 in Dortmund with Real Madrid and I enjoyed the second game, until the last second. In that last second, we were out. But during the 90 minutes I enjoyed it.
“We risked everything, we got to 2-0 up, in the last period of the game my goalkeeper came up and if we’d scored we’d have gone through and been in the final. Brilliant.Brilliant’’ the confident czar muted
5 STEPS TO BE CONFIDENT LIKE THE SPECIAL ONE
1Be clear on your goals. The first thing we should do, is that we should be clear on our goals. What is the purpose of us doing an activity? We should set a goal for whatever we plan to do, and then only if we plan to challenge ourselves will we achieve that target. It is an important step because it will lead us to create another goal and reach another larger goal. This will help to build up self confidence.
2Face your fears. We usually cope with fear in whatever things that we do, and this emotion will have great impact against our self confidence. We should try our best to not let fear be an obstacle to our success. Facing your fears is the best way to get rid of them.
3Build up more positive thinking. Positive thinking and emotions such as excitement can greatly improve self confidence helping us to deal with any difficulties. We shall make this a great motivation step to control our feelings and do not let those negative feelings stop us for reaching our goals.
4Find more guidance. It is true that self confidence can be gained through ourselves, but sometimes we need some intensive guidance from successful people. We can learn from them, treat them as our mentor, and emulate their success and confidence. This is essential because whenever we are facing any difficulties, we will continue to be inspired and motivated by these successful persons. Hence, this will eventually greatly improve your self confidence.
5Take action and make all those things that we learned happen. We receive information to gain self confidence, even if we went to many as seminars or read a lot of books about motivation, it will not work if we don't do this last step. Remember the goals that we set, implement that particular goals every single day, day and night. Revise what went wrong and try to improve it. This will help to improve your self confidence.